The magical roller coaster of becoming a mother certainly isn’t always a smooth one. After overcoming the sleepless nights, nappies, and breastfeeding, everything should get a little easier, right?

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10 month old baby boy biting on teething ring

There comes a time, no matter what you do, where your little one seems to be constantly restless, in pain, or just plain miserable. Welcome to the wonderful world of teething. Teething is a critical step for your child’s development into a beautiful smiling toddler, but it’s not always the easiest stage.

Again, babies vary in the way they cope with teething. Some will begin silently, without you even noticing, and others will raise rooftops to let you know something is up!

Signs and symptoms may appear and disappear over several days or weeks.

Signs and Symptoms of TeethingFussiness, irritability, and an unsettled natureOverly disturbed sleepRed, flushed cheeksDroolingSwollen gums or lipsSucking and mouthing toysDifficulty feeding or refusing foodPulling on own ear (the same side as the erupting tooth)

Signs and Symptoms of Teething

Fussiness, irritability, and an unsettled natureOverly disturbed sleepRed, flushed cheeksDroolingSwollen gums or lipsSucking and mouthing toysDifficulty feeding or refusing foodPulling on own ear (the same side as the erupting tooth)

What Is a Teething Rash?

By this time your little one will have a full set of teeth ready to chomp to their heart’s content!

When Do Primary Teeth Shed?

Are There Any Teething Gels That Relieve Toddler’s Teething Pain?

Teething gels are not recommended for toddlers, since there’s little evidence they work, and they may cause adverse side effects. The Food and Drug Administration warns not to use over-the-counter oral products containing benzocaine for infants and children younger than 2 years.

However, if you do choose to use a gel, make sure it’s not only free of benzocaine but also sugar-free. Sugar is a cause of tooth decay, which can lead to cavities and even, eventually, dental restorations.You don’t want to be covering your toddler’s emerging tooth buds in sugar.

Unfortunately, there’s no way to speed up the teething process, so you’re left with no choice but to be patient and find ways to make the period as comfortable as possible for your little one. There are a few different techniques that can help them through periods of high irritation.

What You SHOULD NOT do if your child is teething:

Should I Give My Toddler Pain Killers?

This should be an absolute last resort for when your toddler is in real distress. You can give him or her a dose of infant acetaminophen or ibuprofen. These are effective painkillers and can make him or her feel more comfortable quite quickly. Always check the dosage information on the packet and always consult your practitioner or pharmacist about how much to give your child.

Should My Child See the Dentist?

Anytime you (or your other children if you have them) have an appointment, see if the dentist can have a quick fun check of your child’s teeth so that when the time comes for a proper check-up, it’s not so daunting—and they’ve seen that you do it too!

Other Techniques to Help Your Child Through Teething

A few other things you can try include:

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