There are a number of potential causes of pain during sex. Some of these causes are infections, such assexually transmitted infections (STIs). Others are unrelated to sexual activity, such as endometriosis andovarian cysts. Trauma, as well as certain cancers,can also cause pain during sex. In addition, there are sexual pain disorders, such asvulvodynia, that are less well understood. If you experience pain during sex, it is therefore important to see your healthcare provider for a proper diagnosis. Pain during sex may be the sign of a serious health problem. Even if it isn’t, dealing with your pain can greatly improve your quality of life.

Pain during intercourse is also known as dyspareunia.

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Sexually Transmitted Infections That May Cause Pain

A number of different STIs can potentially lead to pain during sex.STIs associated with pain during intercourse include:

These STIs cause sexual pain for different reasons. Some cause local swelling, irritation, ordischarge. Others cause blisters or sores that are either inherently painful or can easily become infected and lead to pain.

Other Causes of Sexual Pain in Women

There are also a number of non-medical factors that can cause pain during sex. These include insufficient lubrication, stress, and even a history of sexual abuse.Many such difficulties can be treated, or relieved, with a combination of appropriate techniques, therapies, and patience. However, medical causes of dyspareunia should usually be ruled out first.

Other Causes of Sexual Pain in Men

For men, sexual pain tends to be categorized as eitherpainful erectionsorpain during ejaculation. Other types of pain, such as surface irritation, can also cause pain during sex. However, skin infections and related pain may not always be considered in a sexual light.

Conditions other than STIs that can cause sexual pain in men include:

Causes of Painful Sex in Men

Getting Help

If the pain you experience during sex does not have a clear medical cause, you may be referred to a therapist. A therapist can help address anxiety and other concerns that may lead to sex becoming uncomfortable. You may also be referred to a sex therapist who can help you address other issues affecting your sexual interactions with a partner.

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